Lessons I've Learned from Photographing Families Over the Years

Family photography is more than capturing smiles for the camera; it’s about freezing a moment in time, preserving the love, joy, and connection unique to every family. Over the years, I’ve had the privilege of photographing countless families here in Sherwood Park, and each session has been a learning experience. From playful toddlers to shy teens and everything in between, every family has taught me something valuable about the art of photography and the beauty of human connection.

Here are some of the most important lessons I’ve learned:

1. Patience is Key

Family sessions rarely go as planned—and that’s okay! Kids might get cranky, parents might feel nervous, or the weather might surprise us. I’ve learned to embrace the unexpected and let moments unfold naturally. Patience creates an environment where families feel comfortable, leading to authentic and heartwarming photos.

2. Connection Over Perfection

The best family photos aren’t the ones where everyone is perfectly posed. They’re the ones that capture real connection—a shared laugh, a tender hug, or even a messy, playful moment. I focus on creating opportunities for families to interact and connect during the session rather than forcing stiff poses.

3. Preparation Makes All the Difference

A successful family photoshoot starts long before I pick up the camera. Clear communication with families about what to wear, how to prepare their kids, and what to expect on the day of the shoot makes a huge difference. A little guidance can turn nervous clients into confident ones.

4. Kids are Unpredictable—and That’s the Magic

Children bring energy, curiosity, and spontaneity to a session. I’ve learned to let them take the lead at times, following their curiosity and capturing their natural personalities. The result? Photos that truly reflect who they are in that moment.

5. Every Family Has a Unique Story

No two families are the same, and that’s what makes my job so rewarding. I make it a point to get to know each family beforehand, understanding their dynamics, special traditions, and what they love about each other. This personal connection helps me capture images that feel authentic and meaningful.

6. Flexibility is Your Best Friend

Whether it’s shifting locations last minute due to weather or switching up the game plan when a toddler decides they’re done posing, flexibility is crucial. The more adaptable I am, the better the experience for the family—and the better the photos turn out.

7. The Small Details Matter

It’s not just about the big, beautiful family portraits. Sometimes, the magic is in the details: a child’s tiny hand gripping their parent’s finger, a dad’s loving gaze at his family, or the way siblings laugh together. These details tell the story of a family’s love in a way words never could.

8. Creating a Fun Atmosphere Makes All the Difference

When families are having fun, their joy radiates through the photos. I often incorporate games, jokes, or playful prompts to keep the mood light and relaxed. The goal is for families to walk away from the session with not just beautiful photos, but a memory of a wonderful experience together.

9. The Power of Patience with Self-Criticism

Families often focus on their perceived imperfections—whether it’s a bad hair day or a toddler’s tantrum. Over the years, I’ve learned to gently reassure clients that the imperfections are part of what makes the photos special. Life is beautifully imperfect, and photos should reflect that.

10. It’s About Legacy, Not Just Photos

Family portraits are more than pictures; they’re heirlooms. They capture a moment in time that families will cherish for generations. Recognizing this has made me approach every session with a deep sense of responsibility and gratitude for the opportunity to create something timeless.

Final Thoughts

Photographing families has been one of the most fulfilling parts of my career. It’s a constant reminder of the love, connection, and stories that make life so beautiful. Each family I work with teaches me something new and inspires me to keep honing my craft.

If you’re considering a family photoshoot, know this: it’s not just about getting a perfect photo. It’s about celebrating your unique bond and preserving the joy of your journey together.

I’d love to help tell your family’s story. Let’s create something beautiful together here in Sherwood Park!

What do you think? Do you have favorite lessons or memories from your own family photo sessions? Share in the comments—I’d love to hear!